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In a world that is incredibly noisy, overstimulating, and increasingly expecting more and more from us, it can be hard to come to a place where you feel you understand your true purpose. Some of us find purpose in our families, some in our careers, and others hope to find purpose in a romantic relationship. It can be hard to set aside time and mental head space dedicated to figuring out where we can locate the answer to the void that so many of us feel in our lives. Natasha Scripture, the author of the memoir “Man Fast” explores this same question: What is her purpose?
In Man Fast, Natasha embarks on a journey of self discovery after experiencing the incredible loss and heartache of losing her father, a man she was incredibly close to. Initially, Natasha’s grief is overwhelming and it takes on a life of its own as it drives her decisions and her direction in her life (or lack thereof). But eventually, this grief is what Natasha uses as a catalyst, a pivotal moment in her life where she goes from someone who uses her grief as a crutch to someone who uses it as wings.
Although this novel is a memoir, what I liked about it is that it read like a close friend who was telling you her story over a cup of tea. There were many times throughout the book where she would say she felt a certain way about something that happened or about the direction her life was headed and I would breathe a sigh of relief, finally feeling that someone understood the things that made me feel a little scattered to the wind. I also really liked that there were so many quotes and lessons learned offered in the form of stories. I am not usually the type to take notes when I am reading a book, but there were so many cases where I ended up reading a quote over and over again, attempting to dedicate it to memory. One of my favorites was this one:
“I also harnessed a faint belief that if you’re on the right path, the world conspires to deliver what you need to get the job done or to get you where you need to go.” (p. 63)
The reason this quote stuck out to me is because I was faced with the two lessons this quote has packed into one. The first lesson is fairly obvious: What is meant to happen for you will. What is meant for you will come to you. Therefore, in your struggles and in your turmoil, know that what is headed your way is coming and little can come between you and what is meant for you. The second lesson is a little more hidden: What is NOT meant for you will not come to you. I have spent so much of my life fighting fate. I have fought jobs, relationships, friendships, etc. and in the end, what happened with them was out of my control. The anxiety associated with us making plans and thinking we are on a path that is meant for us is numbing and overwhelming. I applaud Natasha for speaking to what I have been struggling with for so long with this passage. What is meant for me shall be and what is not, too shall pass.
Overall, I really enjoyed this book a lot. Without giving away any major spoilers, it was incredible to see a female author write a book about loving yourself to the point of viewing your own purpose and passions as the most important (and only) love you need. I learned so much from this book and I can’t wait to review my notes I took while I was reading and maybe even print them out to include them on my inspiration board at work!
If you are interested in purchasing a copy of this book, you can purchase it HERE on Amazon. I would recommend this book for readers who enjoy stories of self discovery, light-hearted but deep memoirs, and anyone who is looking for something they feel is missing in their lives (especially if it is a romantic relationship)!
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